You’re impossible.

Get over yourself. It’s been three years. I’m over you. We are over. Suddenly talking to you isn’t a sign of me showing interest again. For fuck’s sake, all I did was congratulate you on your graduation. Don’t dig too deep. I’m not hoping to be with you again. Your so full of yourself that I wonder why I fell for you before. You’ve obviously changed. Or I guess I’m just some crazy immature girl back then, in love with a total asshole. You don’t have that effect on me anymore. If anything, you disgust me by being such an arrogant egotistic bastard that you are now. So please, fuck off. You’re making a complete idiot of yourself by telling your friends that I am flirting with you again.  

"I had to wonder if men were so blinded by beauty that they would feel privileged to live their lives with an actual demon, so long as it was a beautiful demon."
Arthur Golden (Memoirs of a Geisha)

I’m gonna poke your eyes out.

Just got home from my morning jog with my cousin. It was tiring but fun, but then I get the creeps whenever people, particularly men, stares at us while jogging. I mean, hello? Is it your first time to see someone running around your village? It’s worse when drivers would wolf-whistle and call you names. What the hell is your problem people? It’s not like we’re naked here. We wore respectable clothes. I wore a loose shirt and shorts that go halfway down my thigh. My cousin even wore a sweat pants. God. It’s very irritating. Somehow, I feel harassed. How would you feel if your own daughter, wife or other female relative experience the same from other men? If I had the chance, I would poke those perverts’ eyes out.  

It really does suck when your friends start to turn on to each other and fight.

Come on guys. Seriously, are you going to let your friendship end? I know that I am not really a part of your circle of friends, but even the other guys in your group don’t want you to argue and fight. Here’s one thing to think about: When you’re older and much more mature, how would you react when you look back at this point of your life? Would you really think that it was worth it to let your friendship crumble just because of those reasons? Think guys. All those years in college that you spent together, in times of laughter and tears, would you let that end? 

A peak on women’s life.

Imagine how it would feel to be a woman working in mine field full of men. A batallion of men who waste their time and energy harassing their female co-workers. Can you go on with your life if every single day, men see you as a whore, a toy or a slut? How can you stay strong when even your family cannot believe a word you say? How could you hold on when your children hates you for your guts and believe what other people say about you? What would you do when your friends cannot stand up for you because they are too afraid of what these men can do to get even? Would you stand there, be quiet and let it all go? Or would you be brave enough to stand up for what you know is right and true?

To be a girl and watch a movie like North country, is just too depressing. It is based on a true story about a group of women fighting for their rights. It shows us how unfair it was for women before certain laws could protect them. It will tell us that being a woman is not easy like what most men think. This movie will open our eyes and make us realize how much women can suffer in the hands of men. 

The good thing is that, even if the movie shows the bad side of men, it also guarantees us that there are still select few who are otherwise. That some men can lower their pride and help women who are abused and taken for granted. It does not tell us that all men are evil. The movie teaches us that not all people are the same. Some will go their way just to help when they know that it’s the right thing to do.

So what if she’s prettier than me? Are you sure that that’s not only one of her two faces? So what if her boobs are bigger than mine? Is that where she puts her brain in? So what if she’s has better complexion than I do? She will age, just like everybody else and that would change. So what if she has more fashionable than me? It’s not my fault that I spend more on and prefer books than pretty clothes. And so what if you look perfect together? How sure are you that she truly loves you?

Freddie Highmore

Do you remember this guy from Charlie and The Chocolate Factory?

Or the same one from the Spiderwick Chronicles?

Well, let’s just say that puberty has been too kind for him. Here he is now:

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And he’s starring in the upcoming movie, The Art Of Getting By, with none other than Emma Roberts.

"For women, getting angry is socially unacceptable, even when the anger is over violence, discrimination, misogyny, and other forms of oppression. Anger is unacceptable because angry women are women in touch with their passion and power, especially in relation to men, which threatens the entire patriarchal order. It’s unacceptable because it forces men to confront the reality of male privilege and women’s oppression and their involvement in it, even if only as passive beneficiaries. Women’s anger challenges men to acknowledge attempts to trivialize oppression with “I was only kidding.” And women’s anger is unacceptable to men who look to women to take care of them, to prop up their need to feel in control, and to support them in their competition with other men. When women are less than gracious and good-humored about their own oppression, men often feel uncomfortable, embarassed, at a loss, and therefore vulnerable."
Allan G. Johnson (via fuckyeahradicalquotes)

Who ever said being a girl is easy clearly is a guy who, of course, never experienced the hassle and pain brought by menstruation.

"If animals could speak, the dog would be a blundering outspoken fellow; but the cat would have the rare grace of never saying a word too much."
Mark Twain
"Being a woman is a terribly difficult task, since it consists principally in dealing with men."
Joseph Conrad